Intention: Reconcile
Latin reconcilare "to bring together again; regain; win over again, conciliate,” "The success of a relationship is a function of the extent to which it meets the needs of two people" Dr. Phil Relationships are not easy, especially when a trust is broken, or an action becomes unforgivable to both parties. Before we outcast our once beloved to the ranks of a “negative” person and banish them from our lives, it is important to take a considered reality check on how you contributed to the breakdown of the relationship. What is truly important? “My children are important” This was my mantra after my marriage breakdown. It was a cornerstone in that it kept me grounded and initially was the motivation for me to continue moving forward through some difficult days. This mantra changed its perspective when I started seeing the effect on my children of not having their father around. They saw bitterness in my attitude when I spoke of him, and despite...